"Why are you trying so hard to fit in when you were born to stand out?" - Ian Wallace

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Happy New Year Beauties!


Happy New Year to everyone single one of you reading this, I hope you've had an amazing time celebrating with loved ones! I love when it turns to a new year, I feel that it's the perfect time for fresh start, a time to let go of the past and look positively to the future.

New year's resolutions to me can be positive life changes that you wish to embark upon, such as stopping smoking (which I do not), leading a healthier lifestyle or becoming more organised. I also believe they can be small, personal things that you wish to achieve. However, it really disheartens me, when I see people wanting to have a fresh start by becoming pretty or doing everything in their power to become exactly like various celebrity idols. 

There's nothing wrong in having aspects about yourself that you're less keen on or having people whom you look to for inspiration, however at this time of year people seem to want to completely change themselves in to a person they deem to be perfect, whether that's regarding their body, clothes, make-up or even popularity and there really is no need.

Everybody has things about themselves that they don't like, I certainly do and everybody feels insecure about certain things, mostly due to worrying what others will think. However, when other people look at us, they don't focus on the negatives as we presume.

Therefore, my new years resolution for 2015 is to spread positivity.
How many times do we think nice things about a person: their appearance, their work or even their personality but never tell them? Quite often I suspect and so in 2015 whenever I think something nice about someone I am going to try my hardest to remember to actually tell them, rather than just keeping it inside my own head, maybe if we all started to do this people would start to look more positively upon themselves...


I decided today to wear an outfit consisting of a dress and a hat, both of which I love but often don't feel confident enough to wear out in public, however I felt more confident today than I have in a long time and it just goes to show, confidence doesn't come from what you wear or what you have, it comes from inside.






I want you all to realise that you're beautiful, whatever size, shape, age or ethnicity. Society makes us feel that we have to be a certain way but we don't, be who you want to be, be someone that makes you happy, as Audrey Hepburn once said "happy girls are the prettiest".






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